Social Anxiety: Fear of Judgement and Social Situations

A persistent fear of being judged, embarrassed or scrutinised by others can make ordinary social situations feel like something to survive rather than take part in.

What This Can Involve

Social anxiety typically involves a marked fear of being negatively judged in social or performance situations — speaking in a group, eating in front of others, being observed at work — often with physical symptoms (blushing, shaking, a racing heart) and a strong urge to avoid the situation altogether, or to endure it with significant distress.

Possible Associations

Social anxiety most often develops on its own, sometimes from early experiences of criticism or embarrassment, and sometimes with no single identifiable cause. It can occasionally develop or worsen after a specific distressing social experience, such as public humiliation or a traumatic event that involved being observed or judged by others, in which case there can be a genuine trauma component.

What Helps Clarify the Picture

Relevant information includes whether the fear is longstanding or followed a specific event, how it affects daily functioning, and whether other trauma-related symptoms are also present. This is the kind of picture a proper assessment builds.

Where EMDR Fits

Social anxiety without a clear trauma basis is not primarily what EMDR is developed or best evidenced for; CBT-based approaches are generally considered first-line for social anxiety. Where a specific distressing social experience is a clear contributing factor, EMDR may be discussed as part of a wider treatment plan, established through assessment rather than assumed from a general description.

If this sounds familiar A Comprehensive Psychological Needs & EMDR Suitability Assessment looks at your history and current difficulties in full, and can clarify what may be contributing and whether EMDR may be relevant.

Frequently Asked Questions

I think everyone is judging me. Is this social anxiety or trauma?

It could be either, and the two are not mutually exclusive. Social anxiety often develops independently of trauma, though a specific distressing social experience can sometimes contribute. This is something assessment can help clarify.

Can I have EMDR for social anxiety?

It depends on what's contributing to it. Where there's a clear trauma link, it may be considered; general social anxiety is usually approached with other evidence-based methods first. This is discussed at assessment.

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